When it comes to public displays of emotion, it is a common feeling that crying should only be done in private, if at all. This is a difficult perception when it comes to losing a pet, when many memories, thoughts, and emotions are experienced suddenly and often unexpectedly.
The fact of the matter is that humans have a need to express their emotions and blocking emotions can have negative impacts on mental health. Allowing yourself to cry allows you to acknowledge and accept your sadness, beginning the grieving process. A recent study (link below) shows that expressing sadness, particularly by crying can actually make us feel better or a certain sense of relief.
Euthanasia at home provides pet families to express their sadness immediately in the privacy of their own home. While crying is a common, natural, and encouraged display of emotion when losing a pet it certainly is not the only way to express grief. We are all unique and our reactions to this experience varies from person to person. Any and all expressions are welcomed (nonviolent of course) and accepted without judgement.
Naturally, it may feel awkward to mourn your loss in front of a Doctor and technician who you have just met. This is a completely normal feeling and rest assured that we accept you without judgement. Remember, we are guests in your home and have deep relationships with our own pets.
Now I will let you in on a secret - we cry sometimes too (sometimes a lot)! We feel deeply for you, your family, and the loss of your family member. While do remain strong for you (and save the big instances for the car later) there are times when it just isn't possible. Please know that we understand and feel sadness and grief alongside you whether we do or don't show it.
-Will
Link;
Newhouse, Leo. (Is crying good for you?.) Harvard Health Blog, Harvard Health Publishing, 01 MAR .21, https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/is-crying-good-for-you-2021030122020
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